Check out the links below for book recommendations, helpful websites, podcasts, and other free resources in each of your favorite categories.

Pausing to Praise

Book Recommendations:

The Lives We Actually Have by Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie

My daughter gave me this book as a Christmas gift and it has been a beautiful blessing.  Written like a prayer book, I have found it is a great way to end those days when we feel weary and worn down by the busyness and stress of life. It leaves me blessing my beautifully ordinary life at the end of a hard day. 

Growing Slow ~Lessons on Un-Hurrying Your Heart From an  Accidental Farm Girl by Jennifer Dukes Lee

I  read this book by Jennifer Dukes Lee in 2022 and immediately fell in love with both the book and the author! It is still one of my favorite books on slowing down and pausing. In her book, Jennifer invites us to journey with her on a quest to un-hurry our lives and our hearts, and her invitation gives the reader hope that this seemingly impossible task is possible. This book is beautifully written and as you journey through the seasons on the farm with Jennifer, you will discover that good things grow slow. 

Podcasts:

When I don’t have time to read but just need to listen to something that will encourage me to slow my heart even when I don’t feel I can slow my pace, I listen to the Rhythms for Life podcast by Rebekah and Gabe Lyons.

If I only have a few minutes, here are a couple of great, short, podcasts that will help get your day off to a great start!

Morning Mindset

The Drive

More Than Mended

Book Recommendations:

While there are many books available on the topic of grief, some of my favorites aren’t necessarily just for those who are grieving. Glorious Ruin by Tullian Tchividjian is a beautiful book about the glorious grace of a God who suffers with us.   

Podcasts:

Encountering You is a new podcast with host, Laura Williams, a professional counselor from Brentwood, Tennessee. While a podcast can never replace professional counseling, this podcast is great for those wanting to learn more about trauma, abuse, shame, and other mental health issues and how they relate to our faith journey. 

Other Web Resources:

Grief is a process that can last weeks, months, and even years. Understanding the stages of grief can help you recognize where you are and know that what you are feeling is normal. There are several sites that list the stages of grief and give a description of each stage.  Below are just a couple of links that might be helpful: 

Five stages of Grief

Seven stages of Grief

Remember everyone grieves differently and you may not experience every stage or in the order listed. 

A Space For Grace

My youngest son, Jerrod, first told me he was gay in the summer of 2006.  It was years before I ever stumbled across any positive and helpful resources for Christians who struggle with same-sex attraction and the people who love them, so I’m excited to share some of my favorites. 

I am so grateful for people like Preston Sprinkle who have helped open my eyes to both the truth and the grace of God!

Today there are several books on the topic of LGBT and Christianity. Not all are helpful, but here are a couple of my favorites. 

Single, Gay, Christian by Gregory Coles is my absolute favorite! This book will make you cry and open your eyes to the struggles of LGBT Christians. 

People to be Loved: Why Homosexuality is Not Just an Issue by Preston Sprinkle is another great read for anyone who is genuinely interested in what scripture has to say about homosexuality and how to love those who struggle with same-sex attraction.  As Preston writes, “Simply saying that the Bible condemns homosexuality is not accurate, nor is it enough to end the debate.

Preston also has a book on transgender identities and the church titled Embodied as well as several other books on the LGBTQ conversation. 

Helpful Website for LGBTQ Christians and those who love them:

Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender

Revoice.us

More Good Reads

There are so many books and so many authors that have influenced my life that I can’t possibly highlight or quote them all.  However, here are a few of my favorite quotes from books and authors that have helped shape my thoughts.

Flannery O’Connor‘s book of short stories, Everything That Rises Must Converge isn’t an easy read – especially if you are from the south.  It was published in 1965 so some of the language in it can be offensive to today’s readers, but I think that is part of Flannery’s intent as she used language and terms that were commonly used in the South. Many of her stories have tragic endings and all of them leave the reader with much to ponder. I have read both of Flannery’s books of short stories, but ‘Revelation’ in this book is my absolute favorite. 

This is the story of Mrs. Turpin. Most of the story takes place in the waiting room of a doctor’s office where she has taken her husband Claud. While she is having a conversation with another woman, Mrs. Turpin makes unconscious judgments about everyone in the room. Finally, an offended young girl throws a book at her and attacks her. The girl tells her, “Go back to hell where you came from, you old wart hog.” 

Mrs. Turpin is left questioning her identity and what she has done to deserve to be born a white woman of privilege.  At the end of the story, Mrs. Turpin has a vision. 

“There was only a purple streak in the sky, cutting through a field of crimson and leading, like an extension of the highway, into the descending dusk. She raised her hands from the side of the pen in a gesture hieratic and profound. A visionary light settled in her eyes. She saw the streak as a vast swinging bridge extending upward from the earth through a field of living fire. Upon it, a vast horde of souls were rumbling toward heaven. There were whole companies of white trash, clean for the first time in their lives, and bands of black niggers in white robes, and battalions of freaks and lunatics shouting and clapping and leaping like frogs. And bringing up the end of the procession was a tribe of people whom she recognized at once as those who, like herself and Claud, had always had a little of everything and the God-given wit to use it right. She leaned forward to observe them closer. They were marching behind the others with great dignity, accountable as they had always been for good order, common sense, and respectable behavior. They alone were on key. Yet she could see by their shocked and altered faces that even their virtues were being burned away.”

My Journey With Justin

Justin Campbell was an active, out-going, five-year-old boy with red hair and freckles, and if it were not for a scar running the length of his chest there would be no indication that this happy little boy was born with a congenital heart defect.  Although he was only five, Justin already had two younger brothers and a little sister on the way and his young parents, Robert and Sheila Campbell, found great pleasure in caring for their growing family. But when Justin is left in a coma with severe brain damage as a result of complications following open-heart surgery, his mother, Sheila, is left struggling to pick up the pieces of their shattered lives. In this poignant story, Sheila recounts her struggle to make sense of the intense heartbreak and hardships that have devastated their lives. Follow her in this journey of faith as God uses the handicaps of her young son to open her eyes to the handicaps that lay hidden in her own heart and in the process brings happiness and healing to a broken heart.